Ep 16: Separating Our Identities From Our Auras | Human Design

Recently I heard some Generators and MGs saying that they believed they couldn't or shouldn't do something because of their Type, and I wanted to set the record straight! This episode is a recording I made in early 2022 about how the mechanics of our auras are different from who we are as souls and people. When we understand how to use Human Design information to empower our journey (and love the people around us!), everything goes smoother!

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On this episode of New Paradigm Human, we're talking about separating our identities from our auras. 

Hi everyone. So recently I responded to some comments that I was seeing about people having beliefs of things that generators or manifesting generators could or could not do or were supposed to do or should do because of their type.  And I remembered something I had recorded earlier in 2022 before I had this podcast, and I wanted to reshare that today because it's very relevant to us on our journey of deconditioning.

Essentially, our aura type is not necessarily our personality. There are aspects of our personality that show up in our aura, but it's really so much more. And it's not about limiting ourselves or believing that we should do something or shouldn't. That's actually the opposite of human design. Our aura is a mechanic in the end, and I always see it as how we move through the world, not what we do in the world. 

So here are my thoughts on this a few months ago. I hope they serve you and I hope they liberate you from feeling that your aura has determined what you can or cannot do in the world. Instead, let your excitement and your soul guide you toward what lights you up and allow your human design to help you figure out how to make that happen. 

Hi everyone, I am back with an of the moment thought about something that has been orbiting me this week and something that, as always, I've been observing in the people around me. In particular, I've really seen that All of the people who are kind of more or less at the same point in their deconditioning process have been at this for a few years, all of the people that I collaborate with and am friends with in the human design space,  we're all going through a very intense period of deconditioning right now.

Actually, I would say that we all just completed a chapter of our deconditioning. And what this was, was having all of our survival skills pulled away from us. And this has allowed us to sink deeper into our design because In certain areas of our lives, we're no longer able to operate outside of who we purely are.

So, all the projectors in our group are finding that they just don't have the energy to do anymore. Same thing for the manifestors. The sacral beings were feeling like We want to let go of thinking too hard about our direction and our plan and our path and analyzing everything or thinking too hard or worrying about what we're doing and just do, do the things that we really like doing. 

So I personally am finding myself seeking more projector guidance on my path. This is something that I have written and spoken about recently. So there's a, an article on my blog about that called, we don't have to do it all. And along with this new level of awareness for me has come something important, which is I'm finding myself identifying as an ego, as a human being, much less with some of the mechanics of my aura than I had previously. 

It can be so easy to think that who we are as an aura is who we are as a person, and I just don't think that's true. I always try to remind myself that the mechanics of my aura are just that, they're mechanics. I don't really know how to word this, so maybe I'll explain the event or Just realization that I had that kind of led me to want to talk about this. 

I have been thinking a lot about profile as always. A lot of us have been thinking about profile and as I sink deeper into my one three profile, I just got this realization as I was talking with someone, I think about just the strengths of their six line profile. And I was thinking about my one in three profile. 

And they were feeling maybe a little bit bad about not being able to get down there and  get their hands dirty and do the experimenting and all these things.  And I just had this realization like, this is not, that's not you. Your profile is not you. It's not who you are as a soul. It's actually not even necessarily who you are as a soul.

a personality, or a being, or an ego. It's really just a role you're playing, so you're here in this lifetime to put on this six line role.  So your role as that six line is to stay a bit more detached from everything else.  My role as a one line and a three line is to investigate, be deep in the details.

And make a mess of things as I figure them out.  It's so easy when we over identify with these things to want to better ourself, change ourself.  Maybe mold ourself to get along better with someone else. Anytime the ego holds onto anything too tightly, it can become a bit of a liability. I'm not the type of person who has any issue with the ego.

The ego is just a part of us. And my ego does many wonderful things for me in my life, but once it starts clinging on to something too hard is usually when it gets a little bit shadowy and it starts to want to make a change or compromise my unique essence in some way. Or the ego slash mind, whatever you want to call it, can easily fall into the comparison trap, which is really just a distraction from living out our full self.

So I've found that when I approach it from the place of seeing the aura that I've come with as a role that I'm playing in the world and experience that I'm having.  And a temporary one at that, because it is. And trusting that the world is full of the correct amount of roles, there wasn't a mistake made when we were all created as our designs.

This detachment makes it easier to operate as myself. Being something as the ego is heavy, but playing a role that's just a mechanic in my body, that I can do, that is easier sometimes. So when each of the profile lines of the people in my life show up, they're really just playing a role.  And if we think about it with other aspects of our auras as well,  our auras don't determine everything about us. 

As generators or manifesting generators, we have auras that attract things or magnetize things. But that doesn't necessarily mean that we are warm or attractive people. It can, but so much of that depends on your life experiences, other aspects of your personality, your traumas, your issues, how good you're feeling in a certain moment, all these different things. 

The same way that, for a manifester, even though they have a repelling aura, does not at all mean that they're a repelling person. A reflector sampling aura doesn't mean that they're a person, an ego who's always changing. And just because a projector has a penetrating, focused aura doesn't necessarily mean that they, as a person, are always seeing things deeply. 

Our concept of self and our egoic concept of ourselves  is one facet of us, but there's so many other things going on on a deeper level. A lot of us want to be operating from that deeper level now, we're ready. We want to be allowing our auras to show up in the world. And one of the best ways it feels to do this is to detach from identifying too much on an egoic level with our design. 

Aura is a mechanic. It's not the what, it's the how. The more I grow and understand humanity, what it means to be a human, the more I'm beginning to see the universalities between all of our experiences. That's what's so It's so ironic and amazing about something like human design that's the science of differentiation.

It recognizes that the how for all of us is so different,  but what I'm actually coming to see is that the what is quite similar for everybody. We've all come here to love, be loved, have experiences, grow.  expand B. How that happens for all of us is completely unique to every single human on this planet.

But in the end, we're really not all that different at our deepest level.  This is helping me so much as I navigate challenges with the people in my life to remember that. But when I'm feeling a certain way about them, and maybe I'm even frustrated with some aspects of their design, or I feel that parts of who I am don't get along that well energetically with parts of who they are, I just try to remember we're all playing a role.

It's not really personal.  It's our own fully unique, amazing, differentiated role, but it's a role all the same and there's magic in that detachment. It's not a role like an old paradigm Piscean role where we're molding ourselves to fit in a hierarchy. It's a fully differentiated role where we're showing up in the world to Express our unique aura. 

As we go deeper into this expression, letting go of comparing, identifying with, clinging on to things that we think are part of our egoic personality, really frees us. I'm expressing my aura because this is who I am, this is how my mechanics work, not because I am X, Y, or Z as a person.  In our pure expression, maybe those two things become the same, but I don't think any of us are fully to that level yet.

Our minds are still grappling with how to live our design. in this time of transition in this somewhat chaotic world. So this is just my vessel of love perspective that I wanted to share with everybody that is really allowing me to stay in the vibration of love, which is so important to my design. And of course, everybody has different things that are important to them.

But separating the souls, the people from sometimes the roles that they're playing as their design has really helped me. continue to love people and just understand that it's not personal. So many of these things are just dynamics playing out between our auras. So thank you for listening and let me know in the comments below if any of this resonates to things that you've been experiencing in your life and if it's freeing for you to see your aura as separate from your personhood as you live out your life.