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New Paradigm Human
Ep 18: 3 Ways Subconscious Reprogramming Helps Generators and MGs Shift Reality
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[00:00:00] On this episode of New Paradigm Human, we're talking about three ways subconscious reprogramming can help generators and MGs.
Hi everyone! It's been a long time since I recorded a podcast, which frankly is just what happens when you actually follow your natural creative energy and don't try to control it with your mind, because the mind is always like, you have to be consistent in this, you have to do this. But this just simply isn't true because sometimes we have to take breaks from things, we come back to them, things operate in cycles depending on what you've got going on in your chart, and that's just the way it is.
So I'm very happy to be back because I love recording podcasts, but today I want to talk about [00:01:00] three ways subconscious reprogramming is so helpful for generators and MGs. This is not a totally new topic. This is something that I've been talking about for a couple of years almost. But the other day in the new Glow Up program I'm running, I was just seeing this pattern of challenges or things that people in there were talking about and I had an immediate response to like, this is something that I want to keep talking about.
Because it's so helpful in any kind of deconditioning that you're doing or healing or basically just trying to live your life more in alignment with your design. What really had me thinking about this over the past few months was I got a new dog and I had to train him from scratch. He really didn't know basic commands or maybe even what a command was or how to learn one and he also wasn't house trained so it was a lot of training to begin with.
He's a wonderful dog. He was not difficult to train, but it was a big learning experience for me. And I also learned a lot about how the subconscious mind works [00:02:00] for humans because it's quite similar to the way that the dog's somewhat primitive mind operates. And as I was training him and understanding how to communicate with him, which is so different from the way that we consciously think and communicate and operate as humans, I could just see so many parallels between what I was learning with him and how to really work successfully with your subconscious mind and have it working for you.
This has absolutely been a game changer for me personally in my deconditioning because at a certain point I hit a wall with honoring my design and seeing the results I wanted in the outside world. I often was staying in alignment with my design, but I wasn't seeing the full completion of my projects.
I wasn't experiencing the kind of financial compensation I wanted to receive from the energy that I was [00:03:00] putting into these things. And at the beginning of my journey, there was just a lot of, like, mind chatter and mind blocks in the way of actually living out my design, so it's just so helpful at every stage of the deconditioning journey to have your mind aligned with what you do.
Desire and what you want to experience as you live out your unique design. The foundation to all of this is essentially that while we are removing the decision making power from our minds, it's not like our ajna, which is It's the energy center in our body graph that represents what we kind of classically think of as the mind.
It's not like our mind doesn't serve a function. The Ajna is actually kind of the control panel for all of our body's functions, our ability to conceptualize the world and to actually live as a human being. You know, we can't live if we're brain dead. We need our brains and our minds. to [00:04:00] be literally making our bodies move, our muscles twitch.
The idea is just that the impulse to do that, and what we do and where we go, should come from a different place, whatever your authority is. Then that signal kind of travels to the mind, and the Ajna, or the mind, carries it out. So it's not like we're eliminating the mind, it's just we're giving it a different role.
And when we are able to train our minds to support those inner desires, responses, decisions, it's just such a magical feeling. Because we begin to conceptualize the world, see the world around us, understand the world in a way that is actually supportive to what we want, which, at least for me, and I know for most generators and MGs I've talked to, is not the case, because we've grown up with so much conditioning that is, like, directly oppositional to what we want to experience.
Like, all of us [00:05:00] want to experience Satisfaction, filling our days with energizing things, getting paid well for that, feeling confident that we can actually listen to our response, that there's always great things coming for us, that it's okay to wait, it's okay to rest, it's okay to go along with our natural rhythms.
That is not the conditioning we receive from a very young age. I would like to hope that some of that is changing, but for most of us who are adults now, we did not get that kind of messaging growing up. So we have a lot to undo until we can fully live out our design. And the mind basically is what we call in human design the not self, which is what causes us to operate against our design.
So I find that understanding our design and wanting to live in alignment with it or practicing that is one thing, and that's really important. But if our minds are just constantly fighting that, then it just becomes very difficult. So this is where the subconscious reprogramming becomes very powerful.
So the first [00:06:00] way that this subconscious reprogramming can really help us as generators and MGs is that it helps us undo conditioning that keeps us in the not self. So, I don't know about you, but at least for me on this healing journey and deconditioning journey, there were just times where I felt like I hit a wall with certain things.
It happened to me a few years ago, where I saw some success in my business for the first time, something I'd really wanted for a long time, but I didn't feel like I could enjoy it. I had kind of an existential crisis, which was really terrible and kind of the opposite of what I expected once I had achieved that goal and actually experienced that reality that I so desired.
It happened when I started my business and sometimes I'm honestly surprised that I was able to even be confident enough to get this off the [00:07:00] ground and to take the risk because the programming was so strong for me around security with jobs and money. And it's not that I don't want those things now, I think we all want security with money, but it was a belief that it had to come from a certain place, that it could never come from something more freeing and creative, and what has become the center of my life, which is a business like this.
And so that was a lot of conditioning to overcome at the beginning, and I think had I had this type of tool, it would have been so much easier. Because I had to kind of like stumble through it. So if there's something that you desire or you're responding to, that could be a business you want to start, the type of relationship you want, a creative outlet that you want to get going in your life.
The biggest enemy to that is going to be any conditioning and programming you [00:08:00] have around not being able to do that, or why you can't be successful at it, or why it's not worth it for you, or overthinking it. We're not feeling confident and procrastinating. These are all things that really plague us as generators and MGs because we're natural builders.
We're natural doers. We have that energy every day and that energy wants to go places. Not only that, but if you desire something, if you feel that you have that sacral energy and your inner authority is saying, yes, this is something that I want. Then that thing is meant for you. That's how all of this works.
If you are feeling like you have energy for something, it's because there's something in that experience that you're meant to have. You're meant to do that thing, have that thing, experience that thing. Because, why else would you have the energy for it? That has been embedded in you for a reason. So, the best thing we can do is remove that programming that is stopping you from being able to pursue [00:09:00] that thing.
The next way that Subconscious reprogramming is so helpful. Is that it frees up our natural energy flow. So when we Get our mind aligned with Where our energy is going because it's really helpful to see to start with those desires What is really making your core your stomach your sacral bone? burn, or feel lit up, or expansive, or energized, that's where we can always start.
We don't have to start with some message that our mind is giving us. And that's where society kind of has it backwards. We got programmed as kids to say, Oh, you, this is the stuff that you want. This is what you should want, whatever that is in the family and culture you grow up in. There's billions of different versions of this, but actually the stuff that you want, the signal.
for your [00:10:00] direction and the trajectory for your life should always come from within first. Then the mind can help you understand the world and navigate the world taking a back seat to that natural energy flow. So it's like today you might want to rest. You might I actually know that you want to do something in the future, but you can just feel right now my energy actually doesn't want to go to that.
Maybe you know that you want to start a business or you want a promotion or you want to get married or you want to have children, but your body's energy is saying, I'm going to go in this different direction right now. So it basically allows the mind to surrender to your natural energy flow every day.
When we don't surrender to that natural energy flow is when we get drained and frustrated. So [00:11:00] burnout comes from not honoring that energy flow. Which basically means getting to put your energy toward what you want to put it toward when you want. And, of course, this is not an absolutist thing. This doesn't mean that we quote unquote do what we want all the time.
Because, I always talk about, like, there are just things in life that we have to take care of. And it's not like everything that you do at every moment in time. is, like, a wonderful, enjoyable experience, but generally, if you're operating by putting your energy toward things that are energizing for you, generally, you'll have the energy to carry it out.
So, it's like, not every moment of my business is super fun. Not every moment of taking care of my dog or my family is fun. It just isn't. But, all of those things are things I entered into through response, and so I have the energy for it. It doesn't drain me deeply. And that's the goal here, is to be committing to things [00:12:00] or entering into things or saying yes or no in alignment to what you actually have energy to carry out.
So there's a little bit of a misconception about being quote unquote excited about things or everything being fun as a generator or MG, and that's not necessarily true. I mean, I think when we're putting our energy toward things, In life that are correct for us, then we feel this sense of yes, satisfaction.
It's not necessarily about fun. It can be fun. I think a lot of our life is fun when we're doing the right things, but satisfaction just kind of means that it feels meaningful and right and uses our energy in the way that feels healthy for us. And we're ready to go to sleep and we're happy to wake up and we're propelled forward.
And that's really what we want. So yeah, subconscious reprogramming just gets all those shoulds and other controlling thoughts out of our minds, things that have come from other people, and allows our natural energy to emerge. [00:13:00] And third, and this is probably the one I'm the most excited about because this is one that I'm really beginning to understand and I'm seeing it not only in my own life but also in the life of all the generators and MGs I work with, which is that when we reprogram our subconscious to be in alignment with our design and our energy and our desires, we literally start seeing different world and we start seeing a world with so many more possibilities and things to respond to so if we maybe have this desire of like I would like to make more money but then our mind is always telling us you can't make more money you're not worthy of more money that's not possible for you it has to be hard like it could be a million different things that you have learned by being on earth from other people about money then You're not going to see all of these possibilities because your ajna It's what conceptualizes the [00:14:00] world.
It's what notices patterns. It's what makes sense of what you see out there. And ultimately, we're always responding to things that we come in contact with our senses. So if your mind is kind of blocking out a bunch of things out in your reality, then how can you respond to it? It's kind of that thing of once you get a car, then all of a sudden you start seeing that car everywhere.
as before you never saw it. Or like, ever since I got a dog, like my husband says, he's like, now I notice all the dogs. And I'm like, it's so true. So it's like, once you get your mind in alignment with thinking of like, oh, this is possible for me, your mind literally starts noticing this is possible. This is where it's possible.
This is what's possible. This is where how you can do that. And you are given so many more things. things to respond to. So yeah, we can literally shift our reality by focusing on different things, focusing on the possibilities for what we actually desire. If all of this sounds good to you and you'd like some support [00:15:00] in Beginning your subconscious reprogramming and doing that in a structured and supported way.
I'm going to be launching something at the end of June that will take place for the month of July that is fully centered around this topic for generators and MGs, and there's a link below in the show notes. And you can sign up for the wait list, and I'll be sending more info out about it over the next couple of weeks.
I did this with a group in the first glow up program I did at the beginning of the year, and it was really powerful for everybody, and I can definitely see how doing this ongoing is so helpful, and I'm continuing to do it all the time in my life, just to keep my mind focused on the right things, because kind of like a dog, you have to keep reinforcing the training that you've done.
And it'll be really nice to focus on it for a month together and structure it a little bit differently than I had before. And you'll learn how to do this for yourself over and over. So yeah, put your email in the wait list if you are interested in maybe joining us and I will talk to you next [00:16:00] time.